[identity profile] shrift.livejournal.com 2008-02-09 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
Like most things, I guess it depends upon the situation and if both participants are affected by the spell/pollen. In my last story, I tried to make it free of skanky consent issues as possible, although I probably didn't succeed. *shrug*

[identity profile] sparklebutch.livejournal.com 2008-02-09 07:55 am (UTC)(link)
You actually did succeed - you did wonders. It was absolutely lovely.

This question is not related to that, it's a whole other bar of chocolate uh, thing.

[identity profile] shrift.livejournal.com 2008-02-09 08:06 am (UTC)(link)
Well, sometimes the skanky consent issues are the point. *g* Sex spells/pollen take the whole business out of the normal realm for me and make things less fraught overall, more of a mutual beer goggles moment. If that makes sense.

Roofies or taking advantage of someone so drunk that they can't consent is a whole other business, however. I can't even pretend to be rational about it.

[identity profile] sparklebutch.livejournal.com 2008-02-09 08:12 am (UTC)(link)
There's serious, and then there's crack. There's roofies, and then there's "everyone woke in the morning really wanting to have sex".

The question is how light we are on the fantasy/scifi element. Where is the line? For example, in most mainstream media I find that the representation of gay and trans people as a comic relief is not only unfunny, but can actually be problematic in cementing the perception of the wide audience. This is something like that: how deeply do I want to be thinking?